10 Creative Ideas for Your Planned Sex Date
FIRST
Set up the room in a different manner so that it feels like you are somewhere else.
Some ideas to use are music, candles, incense, new bed cover, deep rich colors of flowing material, sexy art, dim lighting, mirrors set up in different places.
Make sure there are no disturbances during the time you are together.
Make sure you have everything ready and prepared before you start the evening. You don’t want to be scrambling to look for things. Make it the smoothest night ever.
10 Creative Ideas
1
Pretend you have never met before and this REALLY is your first date. Play the roles that you don’t know each other except that you are very turned on by the others presence and you want them.
2
Have your partner lie on the bed, blindfold them and use different sensuous textures to tease their body; silk scarf, velvet, cotton balls, leather, feathers, fluffy stuffy. Tease them and taunt them touching all parts of their body.
3
Have your partner get undressed and lie on the bed. Let them relax and then begin to drip hot wax on their body – you can buy special wax, even with an amazing smell, that does not get that hot upon dripping it. This is an amazing sensation experience.
4
Do a strip tease for your partner. Get your partner set up with a drink, a comfortable place to site. Then have sensual music playing as you slowly remove clothing items and you tease them with your sensuous body. Enjoy being the exhibitionist.
5
Enjoy seeing your partners body little by little. Strip your partner slowly, piece by piece with lots of teasing in between. This can be very titillating for both of you as they do not know what you will take off next. Don’t let them help with the clothing removal. Take complete charge.
6
Create a sensual play list where you spend time dancing and moving around the room to the music. You can also take pieces of clothing off as you are dancing. Have a final piece of music which is slower and where you are now naked and coming together more intimately.
7
Set up to give your partner a sensual sexual massage, pretend you are the masseuse with benefits. Have everything prepared to go before they enter the room, as if you were the private masseuse. This is a beautiful way to get to know your partners body and to help them relax.
8
Buy your partner some sexy lingerie or attire that you ask them to put on and model for you. Have a few pieces that you purchase for them to wear. Ask them to dress in a different room from you so you can be surprised when you see them appear. Have them walk around and model while you direct them and offer lavishing compliments.
9
Tie your partner to the bed and tease them, slowly seducing them on your time. You need some preparation for this to make sure there is a place to secure the ties. You can tie just their hands or maybe their hands and feet. Stimulate them with different textures; hot wax, ice cubes, feathers, kisses. Such an exciting way to get your partner really turned on.
10
Pretend you are different people, roleplay sexy, turned-on, taboo possibilities; teacher - student, King - Queen, Customer - Prostitute, you just met at a late night club, Slave - Owner. Have clothes for your partner to wear to play that role or prepare clothing that you ask them to wear that night. This can be absolutely delightfully sexy as you become different people sexually teasing and taunting each other.
MOST IMPORTANTLY
Have fun! This is your time together to go into a new dimension of exploration. Enjoy, laugh, play, connect and be fully present with each other during Your Sex Date Night.
P.S.
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Much Love-Making
Lianna